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Memes about narcissists and narcissism, helping to put a spotlight on their unconscionable behaviour.
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Unmasking the Narc
When you raise your vibration to such a level that you end up with a full-on narc radar. 📡🙌
When the Narcissist Can No Longer Rattle You
When you raise your vibration to such a level that you end up with a full-on narc radar. 📡🙌
Narcissists know that the best way to coerce empathetic people into handing over whatever they want is to lay the guilt on THICK! EXAMPLES of Guilt-tripping: 🥺 “How could you do that to me?” 🥺 “After everything I’ve done for you.” 🥺 “Go on, leave me just like my dad did.” 🥺 “I’m just asking for a bit of help, but you can’t even do that.” 🥺 “I can’t believe you’d do this to me. I never thought you were that type of person, but now you’ve shown your true colours.” The purpose of guilting is to pull at your heartstrings and make you feel like you’re a terrible person for not helping them. The trick is to stand in your power and notice when someone else is trying to make you feel bad for something that is THEIR responsibility, not yours
Narcissists Weaponise Guilt
Narcissists know that the best way to coerce empathetic people into handing over whatever they want is to lay the guilt on THICK! EXAMPLES of Guilt-tripping: 🥺 “How could you do that to me?” 🥺 “After everything I’ve done for you.” 🥺 “Go on, leave me just like my dad did.” 🥺 “I’m just asking for a bit of help, but you can’t even do that.” 🥺 “I can’t believe you’d do this to me. I never thought you were that type of person, but now you’ve shown your true colours.” The purpose of guilting is to pull at your heartstrings and make you feel like you’re a terrible person for not helping them. The trick is to stand in your power and notice when someone else is trying to make you feel bad for something that is THEIR responsibility, not yours
Narcissists are the quintessential schoolyard bully. Since they can't rise up and be better, they'll pull down the ones around them who are lighter and brighter than they are. It's the only tactic they have to put themselves above or ahead of others. The thing is, it only works if their target falls for it. Take it as a compliment, I say, and use it to shine even brighter!
When a Narcissist Belittles You, Take it as a Compliment!
Narcissists are the quintessential schoolyard bully. Since they can't rise up and be better, they'll pull down the ones around them who are lighter and brighter than they are. It's the only tactic they have to put themselves above or ahead of others. The thing is, it only works if their target falls for it. Take it as a compliment, I say, and use it to shine even brighter!
Oh, they'll tell you alright. You don't even have to ask them... 🤦🏻‍♀️
Covert Narcissists Are the Biggest Victims on Earth
Oh, they'll tell you alright. You don't even have to ask them... 🤦🏻‍♀️
Narcissists are EXPLOITATIVE and PREDATORY in nature. From the moment they cut off their true authentic self, they became a ‘service to self’ being. Narcissists will only ever put energy into something that they can get even more energy out of. They’re perpetual ‘takers,’ feeding off and exploiting people who have a more ‘service to others’ nature. #unmaskingthenarc🎭
"What's in it for me?" - Famous Narcissist Words
Narcissists are EXPLOITATIVE and PREDATORY in nature. From the moment they cut off their true authentic self, they became a ‘service to self’ being. Narcissists will only ever put energy into something that they can get even more energy out of. They’re perpetual ‘takers,’ feeding off and exploiting people who have a more ‘service to others’ nature. #unmaskingthenarc🎭
The GRANDIOSE narcissists, as we know them, are simply floating on the delusional cloud of their own self-importance because they are SUCCESSFULLY convincing the world of their amazingness. 👉 Think the charming womaniser, the successful CEO of a company, the rich real estate mogul, or the most (seemingly) altruistic school teacher, all getting high on the fact that they've convinced the world that their DELUSION is real. On the other hand, the FRAGILE (covert) narcissists are the ones who've FAILED at convincing the world of their awesomeness and are faced with that reality every, single day. 👉 The coverts BELIEVE that they're entitled to all of the acclaim and riches that the grandiose are receiving and are extremely disgruntled at the fact that the world isn't bowing down at their feet
10 Types of Narcissists Explained
The GRANDIOSE narcissists, as we know them, are simply floating on the delusional cloud of their own self-importance because they are SUCCESSFULLY convincing the world of their amazingness. 👉 Think the charming womaniser, the successful CEO of a company, the rich real estate mogul, or the most (seemingly) altruistic school teacher, all getting high on the fact that they've convinced the world that their DELUSION is real. On the other hand, the FRAGILE (covert) narcissists are the ones who've FAILED at convincing the world of their awesomeness and are faced with that reality every, single day. 👉 The coverts BELIEVE that they're entitled to all of the acclaim and riches that the grandiose are receiving and are extremely disgruntled at the fact that the world isn't bowing down at their feet
The reason narcissists must resort to manipulation is because they have NO other resources on hand to get what they want (and think they are entitled to) out of life. They severed their own access to infinite divine abundance long ago, which means authentic manifestation is a no-go for them. Sadly, the effects of narcissistic abuse systematically crush our own inner being and connection with our own authentic self to such a degree that we also end up losing the ability (or even remembering) our own power. Rebuilding your self-worth, confidence, and trust in yourself means opening yourself up to the ONE THING that no narcissist will ever have - access to infinite abundance and love. #unmaskingthenarc🎭
Manipulation vs. Manifestation
The reason narcissists must resort to manipulation is because they have NO other resources on hand to get what they want (and think they are entitled to) out of life. They severed their own access to infinite divine abundance long ago, which means authentic manifestation is a no-go for them. Sadly, the effects of narcissistic abuse systematically crush our own inner being and connection with our own authentic self to such a degree that we also end up losing the ability (or even remembering) our own power. Rebuilding your self-worth, confidence, and trust in yourself means opening yourself up to the ONE THING that no narcissist will ever have - access to infinite abundance and love. #unmaskingthenarc🎭
When you grant a narcissist exclusive access to your domain, you unknowingly cut a deal with the devil 😈. The problem is that you don't even realise this until it's too late! You're either already neck-deep in their mindfkery or you have no idea what you're truly dealing with until you get to the other side of the whole shitshow. The silver lining is that once you DO finally see it, you can NEVER unsee it. Meaning that the entire narcissistic race is now dead to you. 🙌
A Narcissistic Relationship is Like Doing a Deal with the Devil
When you grant a narcissist exclusive access to your domain, you unknowingly cut a deal with the devil 😈. The problem is that you don't even realise this until it's too late! You're either already neck-deep in their mindfkery or you have no idea what you're truly dealing with until you get to the other side of the whole shitshow. The silver lining is that once you DO finally see it, you can NEVER unsee it. Meaning that the entire narcissistic race is now dead to you. 🙌
After being abused by a narcissist for so long, your perspective of the world is often completely distorted to match the view (and agenda) of the narcissist. Once you get out and meet a nice, regular person, it's easy to think, "Oh wow, they're so amazing!" The reality is that they're just a regular human being who doesn't operate from greed, hatred, control, manipulation and bullying.
Relationships After Narcissistic Abuse
After being abused by a narcissist for so long, your perspective of the world is often completely distorted to match the view (and agenda) of the narcissist. Once you get out and meet a nice, regular person, it's easy to think, "Oh wow, they're so amazing!" The reality is that they're just a regular human being who doesn't operate from greed, hatred, control, manipulation and bullying.
Empathetic people often innocently look past the truth because they genuinely want to see the best in others. The reality is that not everyone on this planet is good, nor do they want to be.
Seeing the Best in Others Can Be a Trap
Empathetic people often innocently look past the truth because they genuinely want to see the best in others. The reality is that not everyone on this planet is good, nor do they want to be.
One of the most commonly used tactics narcissists use to psychologically control others is through gaslighting. This is where they DELIBERATELY mess with your memory and perception of reality in order to chip away at your self-worth, confidence and ability to trust yourself. Over time, you end up being easily controlled and manipulated by the narcissist, which is what they want. This all serves to confirm to the narcissist that they are extremely important and powerful since they are so easily able to control your memory and emotional state.
Gaslighting Meaning (definition)
One of the most commonly used tactics narcissists use to psychologically control others is through gaslighting. This is where they DELIBERATELY mess with your memory and perception of reality in order to chip away at your self-worth, confidence and ability to trust yourself. Over time, you end up being easily controlled and manipulated by the narcissist, which is what they want. This all serves to confirm to the narcissist that they are extremely important and powerful since they are so easily able to control your memory and emotional state.
Imagine living like that... having to control every other person around you so that you can have a continuous stream of FAKE approval to prop yourself up. It's a complete contradiction. 🤦🏻‍♀️
Narcissists Artificially Create Validation
Imagine living like that... having to control every other person around you so that you can have a continuous stream of FAKE approval to prop yourself up. It's a complete contradiction. 🤦🏻‍♀️
Narcissists can't help but exaggerate their successes to inflate their ego. They might regularly drop their credentials into conversation or tell you multiple times about the trophies they received in the past for different achievements. At first, you might think they’re just super confident and talented, but after a while, it becomes a bit nauseating 😟. People who are truly skilled and secure within themselves don’t need regular applause and big gold stars for their achievements 🌟. This is the mark of someone who’s deeply insecure and needs external validation to give them a sense of self-worth.
Narcissists Need Regular Applause & Validation
Narcissists can't help but exaggerate their successes to inflate their ego. They might regularly drop their credentials into conversation or tell you multiple times about the trophies they received in the past for different achievements. At first, you might think they’re just super confident and talented, but after a while, it becomes a bit nauseating 😟. People who are truly skilled and secure within themselves don’t need regular applause and big gold stars for their achievements 🌟. This is the mark of someone who’s deeply insecure and needs external validation to give them a sense of self-worth.
A major piece of a covert narcissist is appearing to be 'nice' and self-effacing. However, the reality of who the covert narcissist is underneath that facade couldn’t be any further away from that. They are not authentically any of those things, nor do they have the ability or desire to be. It’s nothing more than a deception to get people to trust them, like them or feel sorry for them. So, for the covert narcissist to uphold this ‘nice and innocent’ act, they can’t afford to be seen abusing, devaluing, manipulating or controlling others in any obvious way. That would expose them to their victims, but more importantly, to the outside world, from which they so desperately seek validation. Passive aggression is a way to covertly manipulate and punish without being seen to do so.
Covert Narcissists Need to Appear 'Nice' & 'Humble'
A major piece of a covert narcissist is appearing to be 'nice' and self-effacing. However, the reality of who the covert narcissist is underneath that facade couldn’t be any further away from that. They are not authentically any of those things, nor do they have the ability or desire to be. It’s nothing more than a deception to get people to trust them, like them or feel sorry for them. So, for the covert narcissist to uphold this ‘nice and innocent’ act, they can’t afford to be seen abusing, devaluing, manipulating or controlling others in any obvious way. That would expose them to their victims, but more importantly, to the outside world, from which they so desperately seek validation. Passive aggression is a way to covertly manipulate and punish without being seen to do so.
One of the most obvious narcissist red flags that you're dealing with a narcissist is the way they manage to make EVERYTHING about themselves. They will interrupt others to tell their own stories, because in their world, their stories are the only ones worth hearing anyway. And if no one’s listening they’ll just talk louder and louder until everyone has no choice but to stop talking and focus on them. It can be cringeworthy to watch and nope, the narcissist couldn’t care less about how self-involved they are, as long as they get what they want. At the crux of it all is their incessant need for attention and admiration. When the focus is on someone else, they cannot handle it and must somehow shift the focus back to themselves in order to receive the validation they so desperately crave.
Narcissist Make EVERYTHING About Themselves
One of the most obvious narcissist red flags that you're dealing with a narcissist is the way they manage to make EVERYTHING about themselves. They will interrupt others to tell their own stories, because in their world, their stories are the only ones worth hearing anyway. And if no one’s listening they’ll just talk louder and louder until everyone has no choice but to stop talking and focus on them. It can be cringeworthy to watch and nope, the narcissist couldn’t care less about how self-involved they are, as long as they get what they want. At the crux of it all is their incessant need for attention and admiration. When the focus is on someone else, they cannot handle it and must somehow shift the focus back to themselves in order to receive the validation they so desperately crave.