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“To love means to be actively concerned for the life and the growth of another.”
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― Existential Psychotherapy
“Mature love is loving, not being loved.”
― Existential Psychotherapy
― Existential Psychotherapy
“To care of another individual means to know and to experience the other as fully as possible.”
― Existential Psychotherapy
― Existential Psychotherapy
“To the extent that one is responsible for one's life, one is alone.”
― Existential Psychotherapy
― Existential Psychotherapy
“انسان باید بیاموزد با دیگری ارتباط برقرار کند بیآنکه با بدل شدن به بخشی از او، به آرزوی فرار از تنهایی پروبال دهد، از سوی دیگر، باید بیاموزد با دیگری ارتباط برقرار کند بیآنکه او را تا سطح ابزاری برای دفاع در برابر تنهایی پایین بیاورد.”
― Existential Psychotherapy
― Existential Psychotherapy
“Surely this sense of betrayal is what Robert Frost had in mind when he wrote: "Forgive, O Lord, my little jokes on Thee/And I'll forgive Thy great big one on me." io”
― Existential Psychotherapy
― Existential Psychotherapy
“she attempted to deal with her terror in a most ineffective and magical mode-a mode that I have seen many patients use: she attempted to elude death by refusing to live.”
― Existential Psychotherapy
― Existential Psychotherapy
“میتوان خواندن را اراده کرد ولی نه فهمیدن را”
― Existential Psychotherapy
― Existential Psychotherapy
“Wish" gives the warmth, the content, the imagination, the child's play, the freshness, and the richness to "will." "Will" gives the self-direction, the maturity, to "wish." Without "wish," "will" loses its life-blood, its
viability, and tends to expire in self-contradiction. If you have only "will" and no "wish," you have the dried-up, Victorian, neopuritan man. If you have only "wish" and no "will," you have the driven, unfree, infantile person who, as an adult-remaining-an-infant, may become the robot man.66”
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viability, and tends to expire in self-contradiction. If you have only "will" and no "wish," you have the dried-up, Victorian, neopuritan man. If you have only "wish" and no "will," you have the driven, unfree, infantile person who, as an adult-remaining-an-infant, may become the robot man.66”
― Existential Psychotherapy
“The same point is made by the Hasidic Rabbi, Susya, who shortly before his death said, "When I get to heaven they will not ask me, 'Why were you not Moses?' Instead they will ask 'Why were you not Susya? Why did you not become what only you could become?”
― Existential Psychotherapy
― Existential Psychotherapy
“وحشت مرگ همهجایی است و چنان عظمتی دارد که بخش قابلملاحظه از انرژی زندگی صرف انکار آن میشود.”
― Existential Psychotherapy
― Existential Psychotherapy
“Death and life are interdependent: though the physicality of death destroys us, the idea of death saves us.”
― Existential Psychotherapy
― Existential Psychotherapy
“آگاه شدن از این واقعیت که فرد متشکل از خودش است، هیچ مرجع تمامعیار خارجیای در کار نیست و فرد معنایی دلبخواه به دنیا میبخشد، به این معنا خواهد بود که فرد به بیپایگی بنیادین خویش آگاهی مییابد.”
― Existential Psychotherapy
― Existential Psychotherapy
“وقتی فرد به دلیل انجام ندادن کاری که باید انجام میداد، احساس گناه میکند، این فکر پدید میآید که پس کاری میشد کرد و فضای حاصل از این فکر، بسیار تسکیندهندهتر از حقایق اگزیستانسیال طاقتفرسای زندگی است.”
― Existential Psychotherapy
― Existential Psychotherapy
“شر واپسین این است که زمان بیوقفه رو به نابودی است و بودن با نابودی دستبهگریبان.”
― Existential Psychotherapy
― Existential Psychotherapy
“Life cannot be lived nor can death be faced without anxiety. Anxiety is guide as well as enemy and can point the way to authentic existence. The task of the therapist is to reduce anxiety to comfortable levels and then to use this existing anxiety to increase a patient's awareness and vitality.”
― Existential Psychotherapy
― Existential Psychotherapy
“مسئولیتپذیری موجب میشود فرد اعتقادش به وجود نجاتدهندهی غایی را کنار بگذارد و این کار برای کسی که جهانبینیاش را حول چنین اعتقادی استوار کرده، بسیار دشوار است.”
― Existential Psychotherapy
― Existential Psychotherapy
“By keeping death in mind, one passes into a state of gratitude, of appreciation for the countless givens of existence. This is what the Stoics meant when they said, “Contemplate death if you would learn how to live.”
― Existential Psychotherapy
― Existential Psychotherapy
“بزرگ شدن، انتخاب کردن و جدا کردن خود از دیگران به معنای مواجهه با تنهایی و مرگ هم هست.”
― Existential Psychotherapy
― Existential Psychotherapy
“دانستن و عمل نکردن با ندانستن یکی است.”
― Existential Psychotherapy
― Existential Psychotherapy
“This book deals with four ultimate concerns: death, freedom, isolation, and meaninglessness. The individual's confrontation with each of these facts of life constitutes the content of the existential dynamic conflict.
Death. The most obvious, the most easily apprehended ultimate concern is death. We exist now, but one day we shall cease to be. Death will come, and there is no escape from it. It is a terrible truth, and we respond to it with mortal terror. "Everything," in Spinoza's words, "endeavors to persist in its own being";3 and a core existential conflict is the tension between the awareness of the inevitability of death and the wish to continue to be.
Freedom. Another ultimate concern, a far less accessible one, is freedom. Ordinarily we think of freedom as an unequivocally positive concept. Throughout recorded history has not the human being yearned and striven for freedom? Yet freedom viewed from the perspective of ultimate ground is riveted to dread. In its existential sense "freedom" refers to the absence of external structure. Contrary to everyday
experience, the human being does not enter (and leave) a well-structured universe that has an inherent design. Rather, the individual is entirely responsible for-that is, is the author of-his or her own world, life design, choices, and actions. "Freedom" in this sense, has a terrifying implication: it means that beneath us there is no ground-nothing, a void, an abyss. A key existential dynamic, then, is the clash between' our confrontation with groundlessness and our wish for ground and structure.
Existential Isolation. A third ultimate concern is isolation-not interpersonal isolation with its attendant loneliness, or intrapersonal isolation (isolation from parts of oneself), but a fundamental isolation-an isolation both from creatures and from world-which cuts beneath other isolation. No matter how close each of us becomes to another, there remains a final, unbridgeable gap; each of us enters existence alone and must depart from it alone. The existential conflict is thus the tension between our awareness of our absolute isolation and our wish for contact, for protection, our wish to be part of a larger whole.
Meaninglessness. A fourth ultimate concern or given of existence is meaninglessness. If we must die, if we constitute our own world, if each is ultimately alone in an indifferent universe, then what meaning does life have? Why do we live? How shall we live? If there is no preordained design for us, then each of us must construct' our own meanings in life. Yet can a meaning of one's own creation be sturdy enough to bear one's life? This existential dynamic conflict stems from the dilemma of a meaning-seeking creature who is thrown into a universe that has no meaning.”
― Existential Psychotherapy
Death. The most obvious, the most easily apprehended ultimate concern is death. We exist now, but one day we shall cease to be. Death will come, and there is no escape from it. It is a terrible truth, and we respond to it with mortal terror. "Everything," in Spinoza's words, "endeavors to persist in its own being";3 and a core existential conflict is the tension between the awareness of the inevitability of death and the wish to continue to be.
Freedom. Another ultimate concern, a far less accessible one, is freedom. Ordinarily we think of freedom as an unequivocally positive concept. Throughout recorded history has not the human being yearned and striven for freedom? Yet freedom viewed from the perspective of ultimate ground is riveted to dread. In its existential sense "freedom" refers to the absence of external structure. Contrary to everyday
experience, the human being does not enter (and leave) a well-structured universe that has an inherent design. Rather, the individual is entirely responsible for-that is, is the author of-his or her own world, life design, choices, and actions. "Freedom" in this sense, has a terrifying implication: it means that beneath us there is no ground-nothing, a void, an abyss. A key existential dynamic, then, is the clash between' our confrontation with groundlessness and our wish for ground and structure.
Existential Isolation. A third ultimate concern is isolation-not interpersonal isolation with its attendant loneliness, or intrapersonal isolation (isolation from parts of oneself), but a fundamental isolation-an isolation both from creatures and from world-which cuts beneath other isolation. No matter how close each of us becomes to another, there remains a final, unbridgeable gap; each of us enters existence alone and must depart from it alone. The existential conflict is thus the tension between our awareness of our absolute isolation and our wish for contact, for protection, our wish to be part of a larger whole.
Meaninglessness. A fourth ultimate concern or given of existence is meaninglessness. If we must die, if we constitute our own world, if each is ultimately alone in an indifferent universe, then what meaning does life have? Why do we live? How shall we live? If there is no preordained design for us, then each of us must construct' our own meanings in life. Yet can a meaning of one's own creation be sturdy enough to bear one's life? This existential dynamic conflict stems from the dilemma of a meaning-seeking creature who is thrown into a universe that has no meaning.”
― Existential Psychotherapy
“The enemies of conformity are, of course, freedom and self awareness”
― Existential Psychotherapy
― Existential Psychotherapy
“پرسشِ "چه معنایی در زندگی است؟" در درجه اول این فرض را پدید میآورد که معنایی در زندگی هست که نتوانستهایم آن را بیابید که با دیدگاه اگزیستانسیال که انسان عامل و فاعل معنا بخش زندگی اس��، در تعارض است.”
― Existential Psychotherapy
― Existential Psychotherapy
“هیچ انسانی نیست که همیشه کامیاب شود و همیشه بیافریند، هیچ انسانی نیست که مدام در تلاشهایش موفق باشد، ولی حرکت در مسیر درست حتی اگر به کامیابی منجر نشود، شاید معنای زندگی و تنها پاسخ اگزیستانسیال ممکن باشد.”
― Existential Psychotherapy
― Existential Psychotherapy
“درواقع، فقط جهانشمولی رنج انسانی است که باعث میشود در همه جای دنیا به بیماری (روانی) یکسانی برخورد کنیم.”
― Existential Psychotherapy
― Existential Psychotherapy
“It is a matter of no small importance that one be able to explain and order the events in our lives into some coherent and predictable pattern. To name something, to locate its place in a causal sequence, is to begin to experience it as under our control.
No longer, then, is our internal experience or behavior frightening, alien or out of control; instead, we behave (or have a particular inner experience) because of something we can name or identify. The "because" offers one mastery (or a sense of mastery that phenomenologically is tantamount to mastery). I believe that the sense of potency that flows from understanding occurs even in the matter of our basic existential situation: each of us feels less futile, less helpless, and less alone, even when, ironically, what we come to understand is the fact that each of us is basically helpless and alone in the face of cosmic indifference.”
― Existential Psychotherapy
No longer, then, is our internal experience or behavior frightening, alien or out of control; instead, we behave (or have a particular inner experience) because of something we can name or identify. The "because" offers one mastery (or a sense of mastery that phenomenologically is tantamount to mastery). I believe that the sense of potency that flows from understanding occurs even in the matter of our basic existential situation: each of us feels less futile, less helpless, and less alone, even when, ironically, what we come to understand is the fact that each of us is basically helpless and alone in the face of cosmic indifference.”
― Existential Psychotherapy
“If parents teach the child that all free impulse expression is undesirable and all counter will is bad, the child suffers two consequences: suppression of his or her entire emotional life, and stunted, guilt-laden will. The child then grows into an adult who suppresses his or her emotions and regards the very act of willing as evil and forbidden.”
― Existential Psychotherapy
― Existential Psychotherapy
“No matter how close each of us becomes to another, there remains a final, unbridgeable gap; each of us enters existence alone and must depart from it alone. The existential conflict is thus the tension between our awareness of our absolute isolation and our wish for contact, for protection, our wish to be part of a larger whole.”
― Existential Psychotherapy
― Existential Psychotherapy
“آگاهی از مسئولیت یعنی آگاهی از اینکه خودمان سرنوشت، گرفتاریهای زندگی، احساسات و درنتیجه رنجهایمان را پدید آوردهایم.”
― Existential Psychotherapy
― Existential Psychotherapy
“به عقیده فرانکل، معضل انسان امروزی این است که دیگر غریزه و یا سنت نیست که به او میگوید باید چه کند. حتی دیگر خودش هم نمیداند چه میخواهد بکند و فقط دو واکنش رفتاری نسبت به این بحران ارزش دارد، یا همرنگی با جماعت (آنچه دیگران میکنند) و یا تسلیم در برابر استبداد (انجام آنچه دیگران میخواهند).”
― Existential Psychotherapy
― Existential Psychotherapy