David Brooks (1) (1961–)
Author of The Social Animal: The Hidden Sources of Love, Character, and Achievement
For other authors named David Brooks, see the disambiguation page.
About the Author
David Brooks was born in Toronto, Canada on August 11, 1961. He received a degree in history from the University of Chicago in 1983. After graduation, he worked as a police reporter for the City News Bureau. His other jobs include numerous posts at The Wall Street Journal, a senior editor at The show more Weekly Standard, and a contributing editor at Newsweek and The Atlantic Monthly. He currently is an op-ed columnist for The New York Times since 2003 and a weekly commentator on PBS NewsHour. He is the author of the several books including Bobos in Paradise: The New Upper Class and How They Got There, On Paradise Drive: How We Live Now (And Always Have) in the Future Tense, and The Social Animal: The Hidden Sources of Love, Character, and Achievement. He is also the editor of the anthology Backward and Upward: The New Conservative Writing. David Brooks made the New York Times Best Seller List with his title Social Animal: the Hidden Sources of Love, Character, and Achievement and The Road to Character. (Publisher Provided) show less
Image credit: David Brooks speaks with David Rubenstein on the National Book Festival Main Stage, August 31, 2019. Photo by Shawn Miller/Library of Congress By Library of Congress Life - 20190831SM0850.jpg, CC0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=82899285
Works by David Brooks
The Social Animal: The Hidden Sources of Love, Character, and Achievement (2011) 1,639 copies, 40 reviews
How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen (2023) 416 copies, 9 reviews
On Paradise Drive: How We Live Now [and Always Have] in the Future Tense (2004) 391 copies, 3 reviews
Young People's Lessons in Character 3 copies
Associated Works
Fierce Pajamas: An Anthology of Humor Writing from The New Yorker (2001) — Contributor — 717 copies, 6 reviews
Understanding Anti-Americanism: Its Origins and Impact at Home and Abroad (2004) — Contributor — 32 copies
Beyond the Boom: New Voices on American Life, Culture, and Politics (1990) — Contributor — 14 copies
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- Birthdate
- 1961-08-22
- Gender
- male
- Nationality
- USA (born in Canada to American parents)
- Birthplace
- Toronto, Ontario, Canada
- Places of residence
- Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, USA
New York, New York, USA - Education
- University of Chicago (AB|History|1983)
- Occupations
- neoconservative
television broadcaster
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- Washington Times
Wall Street Journal
The Weekly Standard
National Review
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The Atlantic Monthly (show all 8)
PBS Newshour
New York Times
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David Brooks and the end of philosophy in Philosophy and Theory (April 2009)
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- Works
- 11
- Also by
- 9
- Members
- 6,639
- Popularity
- #3,687
- Rating
- 3.8
- Reviews
- 116
- ISBNs
- 208
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- 18
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- 8
There were a lot of times where I felt like Brooks made certain actions sound way easier than they actually are. A lot of what he had to say about being empathetic by using your body language and facial expressions to convey your attentiveness felt so vague to me. He would often describe good, empathetic listeners as using their eyes to convey certain emotions, and I found myself just wondering... how? I worry about my own facial expressions a lot and often find that they don't convey what I want them to and don't know how to fix it. It always feels basically out of my control. I strongly preferred the more direct advice about how to ask better questions and think about people as both individuals and as a part of cultural groups, etc. Although, even that advice often came across as kind of.. unnatural? A lot of his examples sounded more like therapy-talk than actual casual conversations. He did address that though and I know that it's more about what you're asking than how.
He also contradicted himself a lot, which kind of makes sense because people do tend to be very contradictory, but at the same time I don't really think the enneagram is THAT different from MBTI types. He'll talk about not wanting to generalize about people and focus on who individual people are, but then he'll describe people as *being* specific traits on how you can *be* a specific kind of person. I'm not talking about when he talks about how people's backgrounds are important. That's different and I did like that chapter, but I think it's a little odd to say people are complicated and then say overall this person was blank or these people seem to be blank. I don't think I'm explaining it well, but I guess I don't see people as *being* anything and I didn't think he did either. I was more interested in the description of people like collections of stories or surfers going from one wave to the next, always changing and in that sense nobody is just a list of characteristics. It's about the story of their lives and how they came to be where they are now and what they will do later. Brooks seems to agree with all this, but he also goes against this in the way he describes people...
I do think that you can know other people to a certain extent and we should always be trying to know the people around us better because we will never know anybody (including ourselves) as well as we think we do. I think that sometimes Brooks is a little bit too confident about how well he (or others) know people. I think that knowing a person isn't a boolean value. It's a journey/story of its own. It's like... an action. To know a person is something ongoing and it definitely involves a lot of what he discusses, but I think Brooks could maybe think about the language he uses more carefully because sometimes he speaks about it as this finite thing even though I think he would agree that it's not.
I think this book is a kind of good entry point into thinking about these concepts on your own, but as a book I think it is also kind of weak. I think it could have been a bit shorter and more compact and I wonder how Brooks would write this book differently in a few years or what he would change about it now.… (more)