Torn From the Inside Out Quotes

“To The Veterans of the United States of America
Thank you, for the cost you paid for our freedom, thank you for the freedom to live in safety and pursue happiness, for freedom of speech (thus my book), and for all the freedoms that we daily take for granted.”
― Sara Niles, Torn From the Inside Out

“To tell a tale so great as to tear the soul inside out"
Sara Niles, Torn From the Inside Out”
― Sara Niles, Torn From The Inside Out

“The sun would still rise, the seasons would still come, life would continue. I was thankful to have been a part of it; I would take the memories and savor them for the life ahead. I had been given the components that would comprise the fate of my destiny; they had aged into my soul so that part of the past would always remain with me. They would be there for me to draw strength from on days in my future when death would seem a triumph and life too hard to live any more.”
― Sara Niles, Torn From The Inside Out

“In America, it is reported by some sources that there were more domestic violence related murders in the home than the 58,000 Americans soldiers killed in the entire Vietnam War”
― Sara Niles, Torn From the Inside Out

“In America, it is reported by some sources that there were more domestic violence related murders in the home than the 58,000 Americans soldiers killed in the entire Vietnam War.

We are in a state of domestic war, the battlefield is in the home.”
― Sara Niles, Torn From the Inside Out

“Thomas was like a drug, so smooth and overwhelming that he took one up a level in their emotions just by watching him and listening to him. He was a natural entertainer, filled with talent and knowledge on many subjects and a keen sense of the arts and music. I admired him as he performed for us, and I forgot the ugliness again”
― Sara Niles, Torn From the Inside Out

“Thomas was the most loving, wonderful, and attentive husband that I could ever imagine on some days, and on others it was as if I married Lucifer himself.”
― Sara Niles, Torn From the Inside Out

“Another reason abusers don’t want to give up the ‘power’ is that they don’t want to give up the power.”
― Sara Niles, Torn From the Inside Out

“It was nineteen fifty seven, the Little Rock nine were escorted to school by Federal troops under the order of President Eisenhower to counteract the attempt of Arkansas Governor Faubus to prevent it. Southern racial tensions produced a supreme irony: Federal troops against the National Guard. This visible strife between state and nation was one of the evidences of the racial turmoil of the times”
― Sara Niles, Torn From The Inside Out

“The power of the undefeatable human spirit, came alive in me, and stirred the embers of my long smoldering anger into a rage of fire. I screamed a battle cry inside myself, and felt the same vigor ignite within me that inspired men for thousands of years to fight when the odds were against them. I became passionate, as I adopted a plan to fight back and win.”
― Sara Niles, Torn From the Inside Out

“The fires that burn deep within our hearts, fueling our deepest loves are indestructible; the power of the human spirit surpasses even death and life.”
― Sara Niles, Torn From the Inside Out

“Some things are too precious to forget, such as the lessons of history, and the deeds of unsung heroes, for if we stumble into the habit of forgetting, we lose both the value of life and the opportunity to become a wiser and stronger generation.”
― Sara Niles, Torn From the Inside Out

“To be human, is to be able to love the unlovable, and hope when things appear hopeless”
― Sara Niles, Torn From the Inside Out

“I learned many things about human nature, but one of the greatest is the nobility inherent within us all, for one of the greatest things about being human is the ability to be humane”
― Sara Niles, Torn From the Inside Out

“Thomas had a younger sister, Ester, who was a facsimile of the womanizer brother, who had behaviors that mirrored her brother’s treatment of women, for she treated men the same way, for the same reasons. The younger sister had raised her sons with a hurtful echo in their minds that said ‘men are no good’, and because they heard it so much from their mother’s mouth, I feared that they would one day believe it to be true.”
― Sara Niles, Torn From the Inside Out

“I could leave the world of the book enthralled and inspired, but the real world awaited me, to caress or to kick me; reality was a powerful force that could not be ignored.”
― Sara Niles, Torn From the Inside Out

“Nothing good was withheld from me, even moral guidance was provided as my uncle read to me nightly out of a King James red-letter edition Bible. “Them’s the Good Lord’s words in red,” he would say reverently. These lessons installed in me a sense of moral propriety and spiritual obligation that I would later misconstrue to my own detriment. The strength of character I gleaned from them would enable me to survive myself and all lesser foes.”
― Sara Niles, Torn From The Inside Out

“The ego of a narcissist survives off the fuel from various things, work is only one, but a vital one for an empty ego.”
― Sara Niles, Torn From the Inside Out

“My childhood was one of both poverty and plenty, suffering and joy. I was taken out of poverty, both financial and emotional, and lavished with love. I was given a gift I could never repay if I lived a thousand lifetimes, it was the gift of hope and trust, given to me by my uncle who believed in me so strongly that I began to believe in myself.”
― Sara Niles, Torn From the Inside Out

“If the compulsive spirit of gambling is a sickness for the gambler, then it is like secondhand smoke for the family of the gambler.”
― Sara Niles, Torn From the Inside Out

“Thomas was growing into his realm of self-contained darkness, a cocoon that he did not initially choose for himself, but he had none-the-less, resigned himself to its lazy comforts.”
― Sara Niles, Torn From the Inside Out

“We were two people in the same house, raising the same children, and outwardly for now, speaking of the same dreams; but we were not at all the same.”
― Sara Niles, Torn From the Inside Out

“It is a common fact that passion is inspired in us by pain, and the act of enduring and overcoming it”
― Sara Niles, Torn From the Inside Out

“Asking WHY is the beginning of change, but finding the answers and putting them to work is the essence of it.”
― Sara Niles, Torn From the Inside Out

“My future would become as uncertain and unstable as a howling wind in a wasteland.”
― Sara Niles, Torn from the Inside Out

“Thunder rattled the windowpanes two stories high, and lightning split the sky; it was as if the whole world was in turmoil that night.”
― Sara Niles, Torn From the Inside Out

“Asking why, is the beginning of change, finding the answers and putting them to work is the essence of it.

Epilogue of Torn From the Inside Out”
― Sara Niles, Torn From the Inside Out

“Internal growth and development were not entirely unaffected by my external environment. No amount of escapism, through either the physical or the mental outlets, could cushion me from the reality of what was taking place.”
― Sara Niles, Torn From the Inside Out

“The power of the unknown fact hit me like a bolt of lightning, that maybe, my father did care about me after all, and I realized another true thing that day: the love of a father is invaluable; regardless of how old you become, or how many bridges you cross in life”
― Sara Niles, Torn From the Inside Out

“I find it a privilege and an honor to be human, for to me, one of the most wondrous and beautiful things in the universe, is found in human form.
Because to be human, is to be able to dream dreams of pyramids and skyscrapers, and majestic works of art that spring from the human mind.”
― Sara Niles, Torn From the Inside Out